Looking for love is like searching for gold literally. why is it so hard to find love, companionship in a city filled with gorgeous single gals and cool guys.
Where are all the sassy single guys. Not in my city that's for sure.
What does a single girl have to do short of attaching herself to a lamp post in the high street announcing her single status, which will surely anly end with her being sectioned in the local looney bin. Im a single sassy girl in the city, looking for love and believe me im looking and so are several thousand other girls judging by the vast number of dating websites available. And these are honest hardworking independant women im talking about.
It's not like we dont make the effort i mean common, us girls take really good care of ourselves. There is a multi-million dollar beauty and clothing industry to prove that.
After spending hours getting scrubbed up for a night out with your girlfriends standing propping up the bar sipping gently on cocktails the guys seem to be oblivious to our charms.Failing to take in the perfectly groomed maiden in front of him. Short of standing there with a banner on your head finding that guy seems to be mission impossible.
While the guys spend far to much time drinking beer and spend their time doing the mocho mail bonding thing. I promise a lady will never turn down the advances of a suitable suitor at least one that tries anyway.
Being single for a while is definately fun especially if you've just come out of a relationship and need the time to rediscover yourself, at three months its intersting, at six months its challenging but at a year its down right fraustrating for obvious reasons.
Maslow's hierachy of needs as a scientific tool proves that. We need love and affectionate in the same way we need air water and food, and that goes for both sexes!!
So for all the single sassy guys out there take note, single girl equals potential girlfriend ,life partner ,wife and mother of your kids it aint rocket science.
Ive been single for a while and to be honest partly through personal choice whilst getting over a realtionship and now its down to not being able to find that sasy single guy. Having made the conscious choice to get back out there after my heart break I entered back into the world of singlton with excitement and apprehension. The dating scene had changed, I changed.
Meeting people seemed to have suddenly become alot harder than it had in the two years since my abscence. For reasons I still have not figured out. Correct me if im wrong but socialising is about meeting talking and laughing right- so why are people so guarded? If you don't hit it off without sparks flying in every direction at the very least you can make a good friend right. And if sparks do fly all good and well and every one is happy all round.
Guys, sassy single mature independant women know what they want, they not gonna make you trade in your collection of PS3 console and games for Sunday lunch at the in laws- well not unless you want to.
